Thoughts..

(1) People have a way of becoming what you encourage them to be, not what you nag them to be.

(2) Other people don't make you what you are; they only reveal what you are.

(3) Clouds in our lives are sent to bring showers of blessings.

(4) To reach the port of Heaven we must sail sometimes with the wind, sometimes against it; but we must sail, not drift or lie at anchor.

(5) The next time the Devil reminds you of your past, remind him of his future.

(6) Patience is accepting a difficult situation from God without giving Him a deadline to remove it.

(7) To realize the worth of the anchor, we need to feel the storm.

(8) Faith makes the uplook good, the outlook bright, the future glorious.

(9) Worry pulls tomorrow's cloud over today's sunshine.

(10) Worry is the senseless process of allowing leftover problems from yesterday to distract you today and clutter up tomorrow's opportunities.

(11) Enjoy the little things. One day you may look back and realize that they were the big things.

(12) When you pray for God's guidance, do not complain if it is different from your preference.

May be...

MAY BE…

Maybe . . . it is true that we don'tknow what we have until we lose it,but it is also true that we don't knowwhat we have been missing until itarrives.

Maybe . . you should hope for enoughhappiness to make you sweet, enough
trials to make you strong, enough
sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

Maybe . . . the happiest of peopledon't necessarily have the best of
everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Maybe .. . . the best kind of friend isthe kind you can sit on a porch and
swing with, never say a word, and then
walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
Maybe . . . happiness waits for all
those who cry, all those who hurt, all
those who have searched, and all those
who have tried, for only they can
appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
May be . . you should do something nice
for someone every single day, even if
it is simply to leave them alone.

Maybe . . . there are moments in life

"Life is only traveled ONCE; Today's MOMENT becomes Tomorrow's MEMORY.
Enjoy every moment, good or bad, because the GIFT of LIFE is LIFE itself…."

when you miss someone -- a parent, a
spouse, a friend, a child -- so much
that you just want to pick them from
your dreams and hug them for real, so
that once they are around you appreciate them more.
Maybe … giving someone all your love
is never an assurance that they will
love you back. Don't expect love in
return; just wait for it to grow in
their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours
Maybe .. . . you should dream what you
want to dream; go where you want to
go, be what you want to be, because
you have only one life and one chance
to do all the things you dream of, and
want to do.

Maybe . . . the brightest future willalways be based on a forgotten past;
after all, you can't go on
successfully in life until you let go
of your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.

Wan's marriage (20th March 2010)

(1) Sekali lagi, aktiviti hujung minggu yang paling saya suka menjelma kembali, pergi rumah org kawen :)

(2) Selain drpd menikmati makanan yg best sikit drpd hari2 biasa, dapat tgk org ramai dgn pelbagai telatah, dan of course pengantin lelaki dan pompuan yg hensem dan cun.

(3) Wan adalah junior kolej saya masa di Ungku Omar, UKM. Saya x la rapat dgn dia, sbb lain persatuan dgn dia. Kawan2 sy yg rapat dgn dia panggil dia 'Wan Poyo'...saya tak tahu apa yg poyonye..tgk mcm ok je. Sy tak la panggil dia poyo...kurang sopan.

(4) Kami berempat pergi ke Senawang, Seremban untuk ke majlis ini. Sempatla ambil few pictures..enjoy :)

Gambar candid yg gagal disebabkan en azhar x memberikan kerjasama. ceh :D

Lee laut tgh tunggu nak ambik makanan. Ramai sgt katanye...

Pengantin mai dah..

Pezal sambil gigil2 tapi nak jugak buat tepung tawar

Bulan 5 ni, Lee laut dan Azhar akan kawen. Ni masa2 kecederaan utk kita bersama sebagai org bujang. Mudah2an, lepas kawen nanti, kita still bleh buat gathering camni. Patah kaki aku korang takde...lagi sunyi..

Review buku : Kampung Boy Yesterday and Today

(1) Saya beli buku ini hari Sabtu lepas, semasa berjalan bersama housemate. Sebenarnya sy mmg minat kepada lukisan kartunis Lat ni. Kali ni, saya mmg x mahu beli buku issue berat, just nak relax shj.

(2) Bila baca pengalaman Lat semasa kecil ni, mmg akan membawa kita mengimbas kembali kenangan kita sewaktu kecil. Ayat terakhir buku ini mmg menarik.."For one moment his laughter took me back to my childhood days...the days when we were not really in a hurry to grow up. We took our time...".

(3) Baru perasan skang ni budak2 mmg diajar utk membesar dgn cepat. Kadang2 x sempat menikmati zaman budak mereka. Sedihnya.

(4) Dengan harga hanya RM16.90 sahaja, mmg berbaloi utk dimiliki :)

Lights at the edge of the world..

(1) There's one fella that me and my friends know acted quite annoying to us. He liked to tease us. Well, I just barely know him, only for the last one and a half month. When I asked a friend, he said this person was a different person last time, but something happened to him that turned him to this 'new' person.

(2) He didn't say anything wrong to me..well, I can accept certain level of teasing. My friends like to talk about how annoyed they are with him, when he's not around. Sometimes I laughed, but in my heart I thought maybe he acted like that because he has a problem.

(3) Last Friday, as I and one of my colleagues was taking our evening drinks, this person came. We treated him as a companion, chatted with him as usual. As the conversation gone deeper, finally he exposed what is his problem. Simply said, he has a marital issue. I will not disclose details about his problem. I felt sad when hearing his story about how his youngest child called him, how he missed him. I finally knew how heavy the burden he has to carry. We exchanged our view on how to settle this matter, and gave him condolences, advices and strong motivational words to him. I knew it was not enough, but it was the least we could do.

(4) I said to them these words that I held on for these last 3 weeks.. "Kalau kesakitan dan air mata ini adalah harga yang diperlukan untuk Allah naik kan darjat ku di sisi Mu, maka aku redha..". I saw he gave me a deep stare, without anything to say. Maybe my words ran deeply into his heart. I'm happy if they help him in his struggle.

(5) In our lives, sometimes we felt our problem are big deals. But if we stare deeper inside life, they're many heroes that deal with bigger problem strongly and bravely. They are the lights at the edge of the world.

Sirah nabi dan kisah kini...

(1) Abu Talib adalah bapa saudara kepada Rasullullah..iaitu bapa kepada Saidina Ali R.A. Beliau adalah salah seorang daripada pelindung Rasulullah semasa baginda sedang diancam oleh kaumnya sendiri. Baginda amat menyayangi dan mencintai Abu Talib.

(2) Namun, pada saat kematiannya, walaupun berkali-kali Rasullullah mengajarnya dua kalimah syahadah..Abu Talib telah memilih utk terus berada di dalam agamanya, dan akhirnya beliau telah mati dlm keadaan bukan Islam. Nabi Muhammad dikatakan amat sedih kerana tidak mampu menyelamatkan org yg amat dicintainya, sehinggakan Allah menurunkan ayat khas utk peristiwa ini bagi menenangkan Rasulullah.

(3) Tempoh 2 -3 minggu kebelakangan ini memberikan saya sekilas rasa tentang apa yg Rasullullah rasakan pada masa itu. Walaupun dugaan saya ini kecil, namun amat sy rasakan pedihnya..apatah lagi apa yg dirasakan oleh Rasullullah, dugaan yg amat besar. Baginda berasa sedih, kerana baginda juga manusia biasa seperti kita.

(4) Benarlah, sesungguhnya hati ini milik Allah, hanya Dia yg mampu mengubahnya..walau seberapa kuat usaha kita 'menyentuh'nya.

(5) Saya layarkan doa dari jauh utk org yg saya sayangi...

We're different inside our hearts..

(1) When we're in a group of people, for example among friends, most certainly there's somebody inside that group with distinct beautiful or handsome face, which is of course will be noticed by others.

(2) Most of the time, if there's a beautiful girl inside a group of girls, almost all men attention will be directed to her. They will tease her with their naughty and flirting jokes..well, sometime that's including me. Hey, we're guys ;). However, some of them will not notice how the other girls inside that group will feel, especially when there're only two of them. They may look fine on the outside, but inside their hearts, they will say..

"Bestnye jadi die..semua org suka..best jadi org lawa ni"

"Xpela, nak wat camne..aku x lawa cam die.."

(3) Usually I will notice this, and I will try to talk to both or all of them..eventhough just a silly conversation, just to control their mood. I don't like them to feel being left by everybody.

(4) For all those girls and guys who have feel they have been left out, I have an advise for them..guys, it's OK. Maybe we're not pretty, we're not handsome, we're not beautiful...but remember, if someone want to get close to us, like us, love us..then it will not because of our beauties, it is because of who we are. All those pretty and handsome guys will have tougher times to choose, and some of them may pick the wrong one. But for us, we will be loved for who we are.

(5) It's great isn't it...God has made us perfect in every ways! :)